Pretty new here, haven't met anyone yet. I'm a kinkster looking for fun with other kinky people. True Dom, not a bully. All about BDSM. Love being a Bull, too. Also down for romance and vanilla sex, just not exclusively. Vanilla stuff: semi-retired journalist, pretty intelligent, love to go out on the town for restaurants and live music. 11 years divorced. Pretty good sense of humor. The only things average about me are height and size. Lover of dogs, warm weather, sports ... and you?

My Ideal Person Ideal person is female between 18 and 80 and, well, slutty. I don't want to be anyone's one and only. She's enthusiastically sexual and at least a little into kink and BDSM. Size queens need not apply -- I'm normal-size. She doesn't have to have a perfect body, but I just can't get into older obese women. She doesn't have to be a sub, but it helps. No dommes, but switches are OK -- I love being ridden so I can use my hands and mouth. She can be 4-10 or 6 feet, doesn't matter to me. A little crazy is fine, maybe even great, but I don't have any room in my life for full-on nuts. Or Trumpers or anti-vaxxers, for that matter. She can be great-looking or not -- I'm an equal-opportunity fucker. And don't come at me with scams or prostitution. I'm sex-positive and pro-sex-worker, but I'm not buy-sexual.