im a veteran, a virgo, and a definitely wont "just..." anything much less relax. not into playing cis hetero normative gender roles, but generally ppl who i think are fuckable, generally enjoy my attention. last three relationships lasted 5-10 years long and all three of them women, so don't worry if you're excited it excites me. if you are a girl who things shes hot, well you might have to take the lead and have been known to be speechless. i your a guy, and you want a willing and curious partner who believes in taking you seriously and that sex is a team sport, pitch how you could put my doubts at ease and how hot you think cuddling and foreplay and sex exploration leads to better sex. have a vehicle, but cannot host, will have sex with anyone that is gental and smells nice and no strings. to the guy who had a good time with me before, i lost your contact info, but you were nice and i would like to leave a testimonial if you contact me, maybe we could fuck some more if you're interested? lemme kwow

My Ideal Person no maga, no control freaks, cannot host, live with ex, don't want her finding out.
ok my ideal person:
ok, were you in the band? all my exes were band nerds. mf both.
clean shaven, clean smelling, no mean or degrading beliefs or plans.
open and sex positive, no one sex is ever the best ever ppl are different and you have to explore many flavors of activities to get the right angles and paces. my ideal partner wants fun orgasmic sex, in as many ways and requests as it takes to reach satisfaction.
condom or sterile but either way don't want complications from risks, take std test, wear condom or get surgery